Ever wonder why a woman—maybe someone you know—sticks with a guy who treats her like garbage? It’s not just “her problem,” and it’s not as simple as “just leave.” There’s real stuff holding her back, and if you’re a guy who wants to understand women better, you need to know what’s going on. This isn’t about blaming anyone; it’s about seeing the traps so you can help her break free—or avoid these dynamics yourself. Here are 10 reasons she might stay with an abuser, laid out plain and simple, so you can step up like a man who gets it.
She’s Scared Stiff: Abusers don’t just hurt—they threaten. She might be terrified he’ll come after her, her kids, or even her reputation if she bolts. That fear isn’t weakness; it’s a survival instinct. If she’s jumpy or vague about leaving, that’s likely why.
